Hello, Trouble!
Little Honey Badger is a feminist hub for survivors and people who’ve had enough.
Soft heart, sharp teeth.
About Me
I’m a feminist writer, mindset strategist, and survivor. Mother to two brilliant girls. Enthusiast of all animals with disproportionate opinions about aquariums. I’ve spent seventeen years helping women rebuild their thinking. Now I’m helping them rebuild their lives.
The Before
I survived violence young- a childhood sexual attack that changed me forever, and later, systematic targeting and stalking. For years, I was the kind of woman who kept quiet about it. Who minimised it. Who believed the stories I was told: that it was my fault, that speaking up would make things worse, that staying small was safer.
I was wrong about all of it.
I naturally found my way into coaching and mindset work, building a career on helping women unpick the lies they’d internalised. I was genuinely good at it- genuinely. The irony being that I was still very much internalising my own lies. I was also still operating from the same core belief: that what happened to me was a personal failing, not a structural problem. That healing meant getting over it privately and moving on. That you’re only allowed to be angry about things that happen to other people or on the news.
Then I couldn’t pretend anymore.
The Mission
When you’ve survived violence, you see the world differently. You see how coercive control operates in plain sight. You see how institutions fail women. You see how we’re conditioned to doubt ourselves, shrink ourselves, accept less than we deserve.
And you also see something else: that changing this doesn’t require waiting for permission. It requires women who refuse to stay quiet. Women who speak the unspeakable. Women who build spaces where other women can do the same.
Little Honey Badger exists for that reason. It’s for women who’ve been targeted, gaslit, controlled, or dismissed - and who are rightfully furious about it in ways society doesn’t know how to handle. It’s for women rebuilding after coercive relationships. It’s for women who want feminist analysis without the fluff, humour without the apology, and community that actually gets it.
Because here’s what I know: Your refusal to disappear is political. And your story matters- not because it’s inspirational, but because it’s true, and true stories change things.
What’s Here
I write about coercive control, DV, stalking, anti-feminist backlash, women’s rights, and the unglamorous work of rebuilding. It’s direct. It’s sometimes dark. It doesn’t pretend that healing is linear or that speaking up is safe. But it’s also grounded in the belief that women deserve better- and that we’re capable of building it ourselves.
What You Can Do
Read. Subscribe to Little Honey Badger and get essays on feminist analysis, surviving coercive relationships, and refusing to shrink.
Join. Become part of the Little Honey Badger Empowered Community- a space for people rebuilding after coercive control, stalking and all kinds of abuse, where you can think out loud, share your experience, and connect with others who understand while we have fun, connect and take back our voices.
Reach out. If you’re navigating stalking, coercive control, or abuse- or if you’re interested in helping others- get in touch. I’m building something bigger than the publication, and I want women with lived experience at the centre of it.
Your survival was never meant to be solitary.
We’ve got you.
